Why the hell is it necessary. Spending hours at IL house with IL pretending that their family member D juusst happened to be out. Well, i do know that it was deliberate as D somehow decided to hate me to end of the world cuz of perceived slights, and has no qualms telling extended family about it too also D thinks i kiam nv splash $ on them LOLOLOL (well tbh, my partner and i dont operate this way - my side of family i settle, your side yours)